Godly children is a blessing that many parents long for. The big question many are asking is how does one actually produce a godly family. Issues of parenting and family discipline are not easy to advise on, because hard and fast rules are difficult to come by. My wife and I have learnt that being … More Raising a Family with God’s Values
I have to confess that I embarked on marriage believing in a fairy tale. From what I had read and watched, I thought this version of marriage would come true. Almost 10 years ago now, I found my Beautiful Benin Princess . As our relationship moved toward marriage, I 100 percent believed that my happily … More Why Marriage seems So Difficult
Yes. We have all been there. Your Spouse has done something you don’t like and for an hour, a day, a week, you are Keeping Malice. Now let’s just cut straight to the chase. What is Malice in the first place. “Malice is defined as bad will or the desire to do bad things to another … More Keeping Malice in Marriage?
They say Communication is at the heart of success or failure of a relationship. Let me confess and say that even though my wife and I have been married for 10 years, we still struggle sometimes to communicate effectively with each other based on different circumstances and how we are feeling emotionally. I think this … More How Do You Communicate with Your Spouse?
Weather we want to admit it or not, most of us, at one point or another, will compare our marriage to someone else’s whether this is someone we know in real life, a relationship we see from afar, or even a fictional one. Comparison is a trap and a dangerous gauge for the health of … More Stop Comparing your marriage to others.
5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman … More Learn Your Spouse’s love language
Many marriages and families are quietly struggling with a spouse or family member with some sort of addiction. This is never really discussed openly in many cultures. Growing up, I saw a number of uncles, aunties, cousins and distant relatives that had one form of addiction or the other, especially alcohol, and this went on … More Helping a Spouse with Behavioral Addiction in Marriage.
Cheating in a marriage has traditionally been a bad title held by men, but of late, women seemed to have come fast on mens tracks with an appetite to do justice to the many centuries of men cheating on them. My wife and I had this discussion the other week and subsequently saw a program … More Why Men & Women Cheat In Marriage.
How do you know that there is division in your marriage? What is the true danger in a divided marriage? If you or your spouse are saying things like “we are so far apart on this,” “we share nothing in common,” “we never see eye to eye,” “we disagree about everything,” and “I can’t stand … More Unity of Purpose in Marriage.
As I have cruised through the bumpy route of life and marriage, I have learnt quite a number of very bitter and valuable lessons. All of the bad choices and bad situations I found myself in could have been avoided if I had been in the right frame of mind & spirit. You see for … More Pursue Peace, not War, Humility not Pride & Wisdom not Ignorance/Foolishness